I know that men look at other woman and I also know that women definitely look at other men but there is a distinct difference between a quick glance and a flat out disrespectful, lustful, head to toe, more than 3 second stare. I’ve been dating someone special for about 10 months now. I’ve noticed him on several occasions looking at other women in my presence but the most recent episode while leaving the movie theatre struck me to pose this question. Is staring at the opposite sex in the company of your date, boyfriend, girlfriend, fiancé, husband or wife disrespectful or should it simply be ignored? In the past, it really didn’t bother me because I’m successful, I’m confident; I believe that I am an attractive 29 yr old African-American female and I am a model for crying out loud. I understand that pretty woman capture his attention from time to time and that was me about 10 months ago. I hope and pray that I am still “The One” but needless to say, we ended a nice night out at the movies with an argument and we haven’t spoken in more than 24 hours now. His roaming eyes even caught the attention of my brother and his girlfriend who accompanied us at the movies. I was embarrassed, I felt ugly (temporarily), and ended up very angry. So I ask again, is staring at the opposite sex in the company of your date, boyfriend, girlfriend, fiancé, husband or wife disrespectful or should it simply be ignored?
2006-11-26
14:55:13
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