Today my grandmother discreetly told me to stash an envelope in my purse that she handed to me after my dad told her not to. She's given me money that my parents tell her not to give me before. I've learned to, after trying to refuse it in the past, take the money with a gracious thank you.
My dad stopped me after getting home and asked me what my grandmother gave me. I told him she gave me ten dollars along with a small note saying "Just something to say I love you." We were in a recent severe car accident, so I understand that she's glad I'm still here, but dad said something like "You shouldn't have taken that."
I went on to say "What was I supposed to do? If I hadn't accepted it, she'dve been mad. If I did, you would have been mad." He finally admitted to me that she'd try to pay him for part of a relative's funeral flowers that his sister didn't pay a part of. He didn't accept it, so she told him she'd give it to me and did.
What am I supposed to do?
2006-11-23
09:04:23
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