Here's the deal, I used to be considered a "butch lesbian" and even then, I'd be afraid to approach girls, because I was attracted to other butch lesbians and for some reason, that tends to be a "taboo" in the lesbian world apparently.
Now, I am a female-to-male transsexual and I'm STILL afraid to approach girls. I know it's common for the guy to flirt with the girl, buy her a drink ect, but I can't seem to get over this fear. I have lots of girls I talk to in my classes, as friends, ect, but I can't get up the courage to flirt with a girl or hit on her. I don't even know if I know how, and I'm REALLY afraid to try to flirt with a straight girl, but as a male now, trying to hit on a lesbian doesn't seem like it's gonna work. So what should I do to get over this?
I know it sounds funny, but girls intimidate me.
2006-11-21
01:58:59
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Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender