ive been seeing this guy casually. we were flirting thro text messages. we only meet up together by chance as we live in different towns. this can sometimes be weeks!!he said for me to let him know in advance when i was around.
i told him that i fancied him and asked him when he was going to ask me out. he said he thinks hes around saturday. thats how things were left.
what should i do?
does he like me?
2006-11-21 01:59:00 · 12 answers · asked by Becky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it takes more time to tell
2006-11-21 02:01:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play it cool. You are being very honest with him. He is avoiding asking you out. It is OK for you to ask him out. Just do it. You don't have to wait for a man to ask you.
You should also be very careful. You don't know him all that well. He may or may not like you. He might also be a pervert. Do not be alone with him for many dates. Arrange to meet in a public place like a movie theater or restaurant. Some men think that when they pay for the date, you "owe" them sex. You do not owe sex to anyone. I often pay my own way. That's OK to do.
Be careful, and good luck.
2006-11-21 10:04:12 · answer #2 · answered by Linda R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you should do is schedule a 'real' date no 'hanging out'. Go to a movie and dinner somewhere you can TALK (not IM) to each other and truly get to know the other person.
You will find out for sure if he likes you after 'The Date'.
2006-11-21 10:13:37 · answer #3 · answered by clic1_0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's funny as I'm in the same position as you!!!
yes he does like you.
think you need to be a little more straight with him to work out if your wasting your time or not!!! im in the process of doing that now!!!
good luck! but don't waste to much of your time on him there is plenty out there!
2006-11-21 10:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by annie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems as he likes you but dont jump in to far cause he can just want to be friends and get to know you before thinks your some totaly differnt person so just take it slow if he wants to be together he'll let you know or he might just give off signs and with out saying you could be dating so just wait and see wat happens
2006-11-21 10:04:38 · answer #5 · answered by shantinique r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt sound like hes that interested to me.
if he was he would have sent you a text or called to ask you out like he said.
2006-11-21 10:36:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it at that - the ball is in his court - he knows you like him after saying what you did so dont pursue it any more - if he doesnt call you or whatever you know where you stand with him.
Good luck xx
2006-11-21 11:03:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I told you b4 chill out you are def in there.
2006-11-21 10:02:22 · answer #8 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a step back......you put the ball in his court....see waht he does with it....and if he doesn't want to play...walk on and walk tall.
2006-11-21 11:21:18 · answer #9 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's avoiding you, honey. Forget it. If he really wanted to be with you he'd be knocking at your door.
2006-11-21 10:03:41 · answer #10 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋