My boyfriend has this ex who he says is the female version of him. When I asked him why he would want to date me over her, considering we're very different, he said, "I like different things. I don't want to be with myself." Even so, they dated for 3 years (and even lived together). He broke up with her right before we met, and though we hung out for a month before we started dating, he essentially wasn't single for long. I know I'm not the rebound because rebound relationships don't last for very long. Even so, he's going to see her over winter break, and he lives across the country, so I won't get to see him (I offered to come visit, but he said that freaked him out a little because he's worried about things moving too fast). He and his ex talk a lot, but he's constantly telling me how I'm the smartest, most beautiful girl he's dated. He's told me a lot about her and I know he just feels really bad for hurting her. Do I have a right to be jealous? How can I stop feeling it?
2006-11-14
10:44:19
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skichamonix515
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