there is a girl i have been talking to through e-mail. i am just getting out of a relationship and we don't know each other well so we decided to take it slowly. she said in time she can tell me if she likes me too. but now she says that she sorta likes someone else and thinks they might like her to. so i'm really confused and don't want to get too invested but i don't want to not try at all. so what should i do? getting over her will not be easy. she is the most beautiful girl i've seen and i really like her mind and heart.
2006-11-14 10:43:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we have talked in person about 5 or 6 times around campus
2006-11-14 10:44:06 · update #1
Sounds like you are already invested. In order to find true love one must take risks with their heart. You could play it safe, but then you'll never know what might have been. Even if you take a risk and end up getting hurt, it is much better than allowing fear to restrain you.
2006-11-14 10:49:20 · answer #1 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on a friendship first. You hardly know each other and you are just getting over someone else. Just continue emailing her and maybe in time you will feel comfortable enough to ask her out.
2006-11-14 10:49:22 · answer #2 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her some time. make sure she knows exactly how you feel, but don;t over do it. don't overly compliment her looks. tell her you love her personality and mind, jsut like you did on here. who she chooses is up to her and you can't really do anything about it. try your best though, don;t give in to the other guy.
2006-11-14 10:46:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she does get involved...always be her friend. No matter what. Girls love guys as friends. If your there for her through all of what she's putting you through, she'll respect you...alot. That, is best for the future. Just treat her the same no matter what...and I'm sure she'll someday be with you :)
2006-11-14 10:48:06 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetthing4u09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww your so sweet, well I think that you should continue to talk to her because you like her but if she continues to like this other boy then honey you need to move on and find a girl who feels about you the same way you feel about her
there plenty of fish in the sea
2006-11-14 10:48:41 · answer #5 · answered by FREE2BE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is already telling you she likes someone else.. as hard as it is let her go, you dont want to be second choice do you?
2006-11-14 10:46:01 · answer #6 · answered by jesssmuse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol! internet likings... lol! there's no such thing buddy, so go out there and find yourself a real girl!
2006-11-14 10:46:20 · answer #7 · answered by Henry P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the girl is a tease.....get rid of her
2006-11-14 10:46:25 · answer #8 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it day by day and dont rush anything.
2006-11-14 10:45:57 · answer #9 · answered by oxygenO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋