My boyfriend asked me to buy a house with him. I, like an idiot, do because I love him and want to marry him. He loves me but isn't sure that I am the "one" and wants to think it over so that he makes the right decision. He's been thinking about it for weeks and still doesn't know how he feels. I say that if I was the one for him he would know already and his heart would be screaming that he couldn't live without me. I don't want him to have to "convince" himself to do it. He says that he isn't "convincing" himself and he just wants to make sure he makes sure he knows what he wants and makes a decision with a clear head.
Girls: What would you do?
Guys: What does this really mean?
PLEASE HELP I am going insane! I love him so much and am trying to be patient but his logic and reason go against everything that I think love/marriage should be. I don't know what to do.
2006-11-11
02:29:02
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Marriage & Divorce