You saw to it that the right legal steps were taken to vindicate the one wronged and then decided to stand beside that person who did wrong; because they wanted to change and did turn themselves in. I told my kids that love does not just "turn off"because someone did a terrible wrong, that they, more than anyone; should realize this, as I treated them and their own father when he was alive in the same way. All steps to reach understanding are met with,,"get out of my life, unless you leave him, I want nothing to do with you" Grandkids all cut off from seeing me and I was told "they have lost their Grandmother" as if I was the one to leave them! More blame on me. My betrayel seems to be that I would not conform to their wishes. If I do not join them I cannot be with them. I was told that "If You wish to have a relationship with this family you will never mention his name" Another words,I need them they don't need or want me.What to do?? 10 years of trying.
2006-10-30
16:31:49
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Faerie loue
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