I got dumped 3 months ago by my ex. We lived together for 3 years. She was pretty ruthless with the breakup although has given very confusing and mixed messages when-ever I see her (ie; such as kissing me a month ago and saying she "loves me" with tears in her eyes), although we never talk now
In the last two weeks I have been at the same work functions as her on at least 3 occassions and she doesn't acknowledge my presence, although I haven't waved/smiled at her either. It seems as though she leaves the event once I am there as well
What is going on in her head - is this hate, guilt, ambivalence? I just dont get why an adult after 3 great years would act like this. The history doesnt go away. I don't buy all this "no contact" stuff; it seems like its just a way of acting like you never gave a damn
2006-10-25
03:18:01
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