All categories - 19 October 2006

Here is my situation, I am 21 and my boyfriend and I have been together for almost four years. We both agreed very eary on to take things as they come and just do what feels right with out being pressured by both of out pushy and eager families

We had the marriage talk about a year back and decided we will eventually get married once everything was in order ie: car, good jobs. Anyways, I've been thinking about it and I'm not sure what I want anymore.

Other than for the sake of tradition and my grandma (she will kill me if I don't get married) isn't just closure on a piece of paper and a ring?

Don't get me wrong we're both happy, committed and faithfull in the relationship It's just there is so much involved like costs, planning and stress which I just don't see justified. I'm sitting on the fence here! I did tell him this and he said he still wants to get married but will support my decision if that's what I really want.

What's your opinion either way? pro's or con's?

2006-10-19 19:05:25 · 11 answers · asked by ciaotutti1027 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do men play games? Have any of you met a guy who plays games? I know a guy, and I can't tell if he likes me, but... I think he's playing games with me... he flirts, and he's inconsistent. Is this good? Plz help.

2006-10-19 19:05:19 · 18 answers · asked by tina 2 in Polls & Surveys

For those of you who keep saying over & over again 'BECAUSE IT'S ILLEGAL" why aren't you so upset will all the other crimes in this country?

We've had black on black homicides going on for years! What is the avg. life expectancy for a black male in the USA today? About 40? Why aren't we screaming about fixing that?

What about the proliferation of drugs not just in our cities but in the suburbs? In the rural farm towns? EVERYWHERE!

What about the rich people who hide their money to avoid having to pay such a big chunk to Uncle Sam? Why aren't we all in a tizzy about that?

What is it that makes a man - regardless of status - so terrible because he has within him an instinct to survive? It's a God-given instinct to try to help yourself out of poverty and starvation.

So I ask, what makes illegal immigration worse than murder? What makes it worse than selling drugs? What makes it worse than tax evasion?

2006-10-19 19:05:13 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Immigration

should i use water or not?

2006-10-19 19:04:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Cleaning & Laundry

2006-10-19 19:04:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Current Events

2006-10-19 19:04:48 · 11 answers · asked by Xo 1 in Religion & Spirituality

There's this small hole on my earhead (the outer lobe part that is directly above my ear canal) which looks as though it's been pierced... but it's not. I was born with it. My niece was born with the same exact thing. I can't find anything about it anywhere. Anyone know what it is?

2006-10-19 19:04:44 · 5 answers · asked by cate 3 in Other - Health

2006-10-19 19:04:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Baseball

2006-10-19 19:04:42 · 22 answers · asked by amy w 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ive liked channing longer but shes 15 and im 13 channing goes to a differnt school than i do but i can see her on the weekends when she comes and sees her mom. but holly is 13 we go to the same school and ive recently started liking her and both of the girls no i like them

2006-10-19 19:04:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does ANYONE really believe in true love???? I have been looking for a long time and i'm scared i will never find it.........with all the single people out there.....WHY is it so hard to just find 1 good person??? Any good men between 25-35 wanting to meet a great women?

2006-10-19 19:04:27 · 9 answers · asked by sugar_n_spice 5 in Singles & Dating

We haven't had sex yet, so I can't bring up past memories...but I'm stuck at home doing homework, and he's at his place doing whatever...what can I text him to turn him on?

2006-10-19 19:04:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 19:03:56 · 6 answers · asked by n_n 1 in Celebrities

Before I went on vacation I was told my scedule would change when I got back but would not affect my hours or pay. I went on vacation and came bk, worked one day and asked them when my scedule would change...my superviser said next week. came in to work the next day and found out they changed my scedule while on vacation and sent me home saying that day was now my day off and it was switch around and taken care off. I asked them several times to make sure. Then I get my check and find that they screwed me out of those 8 hrs. So my check was 8 hrs short. When I went to talk to my sup she said it was my fault, not want ting to take them blame she said I took too much vacation...I tried to explain to her the situation. I went above her and they said it was her fault and they are not responsable for that. I am sick of her not doing her job so I get shorted. She should of taken care of this scedule thing. Three times my checks have been shorted and among other carless things. What can I do?

2006-10-19 19:03:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Careers & Employment

Will you paint me nude?

2006-10-19 19:03:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Royalty

with alcohol of course...just a little party with friends i would just like everyone's input on what songs are best or most fun to sing while your drunk...

so far i just have

Just a Friend by Biz Markie

2006-10-19 19:03:51 · 17 answers · asked by kawika712 4 in Music

Hasn't any other Christians noticed that Atheists only want to fight? Shouldn't we ignore their foolishness but help them when they are in need?

2006-10-19 19:03:27 · 17 answers · asked by Just_A_Guy 2 in Religion & Spirituality

i need go away
i need new name
new friends
new love
new life
just run away and start agane that all what i need

2006-10-19 19:03:26 · 5 answers · asked by mona a 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

put new spark plugs, wires, rotar ,cap, and it was timed at the shop and still has a miss cant get it stop anyone have a clue? wont pass smog ? engine has 880000 miles on it (2.2 )4 cylc

2006-10-19 19:03:24 · 11 answers · asked by curious 2 in Maintenance & Repairs

Is anyone familar with Bobby Debarge he was in that late 70's group Switch. He sounds a little like EL Debarge I don't know too much about him but he'll be missed?

2006-10-19 19:03:24 · 1 answers · asked by ken31pop 2 in Music

2006-10-19 19:03:23 · 24 answers · asked by Sahib Q 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Oprah in paricular is the persson I would like more to help me.I need a financial aid and an approval admission from good university

2006-10-19 19:03:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Financial Aid

"I like your Christ. I do not like your Christians. They are so unlike your Christ." I love it!!!!! What do you think?

2006-10-19 19:03:13 · 10 answers · asked by Chels 1 in Religion & Spirituality

2006-10-19 19:03:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Television

Why is going to school a law?

2006-10-19 19:03:07 · 9 answers · asked by Via 2 in Other - Education

osteoporosis : one of d bone disorders.

2006-10-19 19:03:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Diseases

1.What is a good bank?
2.I do not have a job but is there a way I can still make money?
3.Can anyone give me some good saving tips?
4.I usally get around 15 dollars a week but I use the money on non-sense?
5.I usally babbysit for my aunt she has 3 kids I usally babbysit them for a whole day, she only pays me around 30 dollars is that fair (she hardly ever pays me) ;hovever, she has bought me an ipod, given me a thousand dollars on Christmas and she gives me around 200 dollars for my b-day.
Keep in mind that I am a full time college student.. I tried several times to get a job but for lack of work experince no one will not hire me !!! Im only 18 and its not like I need money to survive I just want to start saving at a young age. I am the only child and I get almost anything i want, but i think its time i start saving

2006-10-19 19:03:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Personal Finance

I noticed that the name "Bifidus regularis" is trademarked.

2006-10-19 19:02:56 · 1 answers · asked by sincere12_26 4 in Vegetarian & Vegan

How evil are you people? Is kicking gay people in the teeth so important to you that you'd take away medical care to hertrosexual domestic partners? How exactly does denying health care to people protect marriage?

http://www.kentucky.com/mld/kentucky/15793819.htm

2006-10-19 19:02:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Religion & Spirituality