I have been dating this lovely man for 18 months and we planned to get married. He has always joked about wearing womens clothes and told me he used to have loads of outfits. I am a fairly open minded girl with fetishies of my own so it didn't bother me at all. I thought it was just a bedroom sexual thing between him and his ex wife, no problem I was happy for him to dress up in front of me if he wanted too, but explained he wouldn't 'do' anything for me. We haven't got to the point of him dressing up yet but now I have found out that he was actually cross dressing. He had been doing it for years his kids knew him as aunty debbie and he was a completely different person in this role. I now feel physically sick and don't know what to do, I still love him and want to marry him but I can't get this out of my head. I need answers and he just gets humpy if I say anything. If he looks at shoes or refers to wearing something in the past I just want to cry. Please help!
2006-10-16
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