i have a bf but i don't know if i'm serious cause i always think about my ex
2006-10-16 00:56:28 · 8 answers · asked by Raven C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, It's not serious with your current boyfriend if all you think about is your ex. This isn't fair to your current boyfriend even though you haven't done anything behind his back. The point of the matter is, is that he has no idea he's not the only man your thinking about right now. Put yourself in his shoes, wouldn't you be angry if you found out all he thinks about is his ex everyday??? You would feel a bit betrayed, and you would wonder why he was with you if he was always thinking about her. It wouldn't make you feel special anymore, and it would definitely hurt. I think that you should be by yourself for now until you have time to get over your ex because it's never a good idea to start relationships when your heart and mind is still on the other person. You can still have fun with guys, hang out, do whatever you want to do, but with no strings attached. The person your with now deserves to be on your mind because you chose to have him as a boyfriend. If he can't be on your mind all the time then he doesn't need to be there right now.
2006-10-16 01:07:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess u hv not completely 4got ur ex,may b his impact is too strong in ur life, talk to ur ex or juz think of reason y u got seperated, is there any chance to get him back or at least his frndship u can have,try it out,& if u r not happy wid ur present bf,dont go onto him much,have sum gap or try to analize the new bf,the kind of person he is,does he likes u or u can discuss it wid ur bf..
best luck!
2006-10-16 08:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by ur frnd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously still care about your ex.Did you break up recently or has it been months or even years?Sounds like you need to take some time and figure out exactly what it is that you want.Its not fair to the nw guy to enter into this relationship with him when you still seem to have feelings for your ex.
2006-10-16 08:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex will always have a place in your heart. But it's time to move forward not backward.
2006-10-16 07:59:43 · answer #4 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the relationship is new give it some time....thinking about an ex isnt wrong as a matter of fact if you loved your ex you might always think about him...thinking is fine ...its what you do what those thoughts that count.....good luck
2006-10-16 08:00:22 · answer #5 · answered by kimbersweet 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have to get over your ex first. that is so unfair to your current boyfriend. you should get rid of your boyfriend and learn how to be alone before you try dating again. shame on you. you are USING your boyfriend as a way to get over your ex.
2006-10-16 07:59:49 · answer #6 · answered by That Guy Drew 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will forget your ex as long as you have stable, happy relationship with your new bf.
An year later and if you STILL don't know, I think you should dump him.
2006-10-16 07:59:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
give it a chance and see wot happens
2006-10-16 07:59:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋