As a kid I asked if I was planned. Mom said no, she wanted to leave my Dad. The div. 2 yrs. later. She blatantly favors my older sister. They go on vacations, see and talk like friends etc. Even her kids are better.
Here's what I get: I lost weight, 15 lbs or so, which put me at 125-130 for 5ft 5in. She saw me in a bathing suit, said nothing.
Later at the neighbors ( I was dressed ) she brought up my weight. When the neighbor said I looked good, she had say "oh no she doesn't, she looks terrible etc.).
Why not say something before?
Because she has to criticize me every time I see her, preferably in front of others. She never says anything to my fat sister. If it's not my appearance then it's something else.
In Jan. she did it on the phone, I hung up. Everyone thinks I should call her. I think she should apologize.
If you had a friend that made you feel bad about yourself whenever you talked to them, would you still be friends with them?
Am I wrong?
2006-10-15
18:46:48
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