What to do?

Question

if your loved one leaves you because of your depression?

Answer 1

go to the gym to workout everyday or go to the shopping mall
after you got home watch TV and don't think of your loved one

Answer 2

No ! your loved one never leave you because of depression. What caused your depression ? Find out the causes and don't blamed your loved one leave you because of this. Move on with life and overcome your depression, start a fresh one.

Answer 3

Are you sure they left you because of your depression?

Or did you get depressed because they are leaving?

Now, while people may say they are not worth your trouble if they leave you in times of need. but if you are in serious depression and do alot of things to hurt them, it can be very tough to stay with someone who is depressed. So if you really want them to stay, fight the depression..

It is a choice... i personally have seen people in depression win over it by choice. so i am sure you can do it if you really want..

Answer 4

well...this is a tough one.

Did they leave you because you were not willing to seek the help you need...or did they leave for their own selfish reasons?

Be realistic with what is going on with yourself.

My sister's husbnd left her after 5 years of marriage because of some of her major depression issues. She was simply not taking care of herself, did not seek psychological help, did not seek therapy or medication...
I know she knew what she was going through because we talked about it, and eventually her husband got tired of being the full time provider and parent to their kids while she simply moped around the house.
That was simply not a healthy environment for any one.
It has been two years and my sister is finally getting the treatment she needs. She is still separated from her husband, but I think there is some hope for them to get back together because they both still love each other and are now happier people than before.

Analyze what is going on with you. If you are trying your best and this person is simply not being understanding that a "treatment" is not a cure...than mourn this lost love, pick up the pieces of your life...and go on with your life...you don't need selfishness in your life.

You need people around you who are understanding and who will love you for who you are...in bad times and good.

I am sorry you are going through this...but...don't give up.

Answer 5

Know they weren't the person for you to began with. Take care of your self. Don't let it get you down as hard as it may be. Get help from a Doctor if you haven't already.

Sorry to hear that your loved one wasn't as understanding as they should have been. I hope everything works out for you and you are able to show them what a big mistake that was. Good luck not that you need it.

Answer 6

I believe that he/she really loves you, he/she will stayed beside you and give all the morale support that you needed and not leave you when you need help. He/She don't deserved your love. Carry on with your life and seek medical attention to help you to overcome your problem and one day you will be able to find the someone special for you

Answer 7

Accept that there are some people that aren't equipped to deal with a partner who has depression. This is no reflection on you, more a reflection on the person you were with.

If your partner couldn't deal with it then please don't blame yourself - some people can cope with it and some can't.

The most important thing is to focus on getting yourself better - make this your priority, you are more important than any relationship.

Answer 8

Take daily exercise, eat right and get meds so that you can overcome your depression.

It is the easiest of the mental illnesses to overcome.

Answer 9

then that person was not good enough for you. you need to have positive people in your life.