ANOTHER UPDATE-----> Recently I met a guy in class and we really clicked. Long story short, we slept together. We decided to remain friends (ie: go out to places together) and open to the possibility of a relationship in the future. Everything was fine until Monday, he starts telling me how much he misses me and tries to kiss me. I reminded him of our agreement and stated that we should adhere to it.
This morning, as I was returning to apt. from work, I saw him walking with some girl. Suddenly he stops walking in my direction and found something super interesting to read at 7 a.m. in one of the campus buildings. The girl that he was walking with looked confused because he literally ran from her into that building. (I know that she's been staying with him on campus since last weekend because that's when we suddenly couldn't go to his apt.) I just kept walking and acted like I didn't see anything.
Later I get an e-mail from him telling me that he thinks that he saw me this morning with another guy. (I was walking alone.) And then he left me a voice message expressing a sudden interest in my welfare. I told him not to bother calling/e-mailing me again. This is painful because I thought he was a decent guy and we could be good friends. I didn't deserve this kind of treatment. Can someone please explain to me why it's so hard for men to be honest?
2006-10-12
03:58:01
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