So I've been seeing this wonderful guy, everything was going great, it got serious enough that we decided that sex was ok. (mind you, we're two consenting adults) Sex was great, up until the end. I realized that he just didn't seem all that into it and then HE faked the orgasm. (like this isn't obvious when a male does it.) Anyway, when confronted with it he claimed that it had just been a long time, that was all. Now, I myself am feeling as though perhaps he just wasn't into it with me, or there's more serious problems like sexual orientation problems.... I've read somewhere before that there is some truth to that "use it or lose it." Something about not using the muscles that you use to orgasm and losing them temporarily. *shrug* Anyway, I just wanted some opinions on this. Should I be concerned? Should I let it go? Is sexual orientation a possible issue here? Has this happened to anyone else? Guys, is there truth to the use it or lose it?
2006-10-12
03:52:14
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