I've been with my husband for 4 years. Then I saw my ex drive by me the other day, and my stomach lurched. Despite knowing that we are totally wrong for eachother and I could never have a good life with him, I'm still haunted by wondering how my ex is doing. Someone told me that you never forget your first love because the feelings are NEW and therefore seem more intense. Ok, I acknowlege that. But I was with my ex for 3 years, and never had any closure when it ended. Would I feel better by calling him out of the blue and getting some closure, or would it do more harm than good? As much as I love and am attracted to my husband, there was this intensity and connection with my ex, yet this nagging voice that he was the wrong guy for me. Ugh, I feel so stupid. Has anyone gone thru this?
2006-10-12
15:20:14
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