I met my current boyfriend through a mutual friend. This mutual friend (let's call him Y) and I have been on and off friends for quite a while, our past is our past and I accept that, but it seems like he doesn't.
My boyfriend and I are really serious and we've talked about where we're going to spend the holidays--such as Thanksgiving and Christmas. His family officially invited me to Thanksgiving dinner. The location is actually at Y's mother's house, so Y will be there.
I'm wondering if I should try to patch things up with Y (again). As in, "I know we've had our disagreements, but I'm in this for good with OUR friend and I would like to be on good terms with you". Or should I just leave it as it is?
Also, should I mention to Y I'll be there for the Holidays, or should I not say anything and let him find out when he sits down at the table?
2006-10-09
03:38:52
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