I got to know her online and so our first meeting was somewhat a blind date. She's kind, pretty, and we get along well, but I wasn't expecting her to be so thick, and I've always been more attracted to fit women. So basically I was disappointed with the lack of physical attractedness. I would hate myself for hurting her because she just moved into town and she's loney, but I don't want to lie to her and can't help the way I feel. Keep in mind I've known her and talked a lot for weeks, so this is more than simply a blind date. I feel there needs to be some kind of explanation, so how do I tell her? I'd even like to tell her it's in her best interest for her health, and might consider continuing the relationship if she at least agrees to try hard to lose weight. Is this a lose-lose situation? Please only serious responses, and I'd like to hear from both males and females.
2006-10-08
06:36:05
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GGman
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