I've been on a few dates recently with a divorced woman that i've known for years as a pretty good friend. She is my hairdresser in fact, which complicates things.
Anyway, the last few times I've asked her out, she agrees but then cancels at the last minute. So the other day I asked her for the second time about this trend and said "Hey if you don't want to get together just tell me and that's cool." She said, "No, its not that I don't want to, I'm just very busy." Well she is busy at work, I know that for a fact, and she has kids at home. But still I don't feel like I am a priority to her at all - I think she's either playing me or maybe trying not to hurt me - even though she is. What I don't understand is that she is such a nice person otherwise.
So, is she leading me on? Why not just tell me that she doesnt want to go out on dates but just be friends?
How should I confront her about this? I don't want to sound like a selfish jerk, but I gotta know where I stand with her.
2006-10-02
10:21:02
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CKApple
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