He's a fantastic guy (at least I think so), but left his wife of 9 years to be with me. The divorce was only final last month & we got engaged a few weeks before it was finalized (although haven't told anyone). He has a 4 yr old & a baby only a few months old. I'm 7 years younger with no children (and no desire to have my own, at least not for several years). I came out of a BAD abusive relationship before I was with him. Now the kids come every other weekend to our new house & I'm really frustrated. They jump on the (brand new) furniture and I guess just act like kids. But he lets them jump on the couches, beds, and even throw balls, toys inside. I have never done this stuff and don't want it done in my house. But they aren't my kids and I don't feel it's my place to correct them. Also, how do I even bring it up? I'm afraid of hurting his feelings if I start questioning his parenting skills. Also, the ex is such a sensitve subject - how do i bring up things related to her
2006-09-28
10:31:34
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