My wife of 6 1/2 years told me about 4 months ago she wanted a separation because she did not have feelings for me anymore, wanted her freedom and said that our marriage had gotten too "routine".
We have a 5 1/2 year old son
She had a brief affair with a married man about a year and a half ago . But that apparently has been over for some time.
Since she told me about this separation she wanted - - I have heard that she is involved with another man.
I checked her cellphone msgs and found out in fact that she has been communicating with a new guy . I confronted her about this - she claimed the guy was just a "friend".
Now she tells me that she has basically written off men because of all the hurt they have caused her and wants to be in the company of women .
All this has stressed me out greatly. I am no saint but I never cheated on her, never abused her in any way. - tried 2 b a good husband/father . During a separation - should either spouse get involved with a 3rd party?
2006-09-26
15:20:26
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Cardinal64
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Marriage & Divorce