I have never dated someone with a child and never wanted to before him, knowing the drama these situations can bring. He has a child with a woman that also has 2 other children by 2 other men. He grew attached to those children while they were together years ago. A year and a half into our relationship, we are discussing how we want our future to go. He wants to include the other 2 children that are not his, or at least spend time with them away from me. I welcome his daughter, but am antsy about 2 children that are not his. His ex has already used his child to hurt him and has vandalized his things. I fear she will use the other 2 also if he continues to develop a relationship with them and therefore I do not like it. We had to deal with her vandalizing his car while we were gone because he had the nerve to ask if his family could see his daughter. I feel that with him being involved with all her children will give her more ways to hurt him and disrupt our lives. Any advice?
2006-09-23
14:52:21
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THICKUMS
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