i talk to guys online and they see a picture of me, just my face, but they know that i am a big girl. we talk and get to know one another and eventually we meet in person and they see all of me and then i don't hear from them again. it's like they didn't know that i am a big girl.
2006-09-23 14:51:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's all in the presentation .... some folks can't stand blue shirt.... others don't like people with red hair..... Some men just don't know how to say they prefer a petite lady without hurting someones feelings. It's all about the communication .... try this ....when you get the feeling you wanna meet a person again .... flat out tell them it will be a week or so before you can work them into your schedule ... tell him also that you are ( tall & heavy and state the body shape) Be honest and real blunt !! IF in a week or so he's still interested ...them do what feels right.
It's not uncommon for folks one the internet to ..... streach the truth abit.... perhaps he felt you were really #120 blonde bomb shell ... and you were just pretending to see if he had any character ...... needless to say .. he obviously flunked that test!
Try fishing with bigger bait .... instead of the head shot as a photo ...also include a full body shot ! Always ask for the same back ... if the guy your gonna meet doesn't look like his photo ... keep on driving!
Just remember your shopping for a custom made suit in a off the rack shopping mall ...it may take time and alot of "trying it on" to get the right one.
Good Luck & Choose well
2006-09-23 15:01:48 · answer #1 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately a lot of people are shallow and think that everyone should be a stick insect super model not realising that over time looks fade and when that happens what are they going to talk about, nothing in common means a lot of empy silences
2006-09-23 15:00:06 · answer #2 · answered by sadistic_bondagelover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never advocate the chatting on internet.
most of ppl lie.
there are everykind of boys.
some like healthy girl,some like skinny
so its just matter of clicking
go on to search ur prince charming
2006-09-23 15:57:20 · answer #3 · answered by rav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why should it matter if you r a bbw you dont ask them if the are a J E R K SOMW MEN ARE JUST JERKSK THEY WILL GROW UP ONE DAY AND HOPFULY REALIZE IT
2006-09-23 15:00:01 · answer #4 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you tell them you are a plus size??
if so then they are shallow
2006-09-23 14:55:14 · answer #5 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz guys don't like fat girls...sorry
2006-09-23 15:17:58 · answer #6 · answered by hellhunterxxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋