I had a night out with my Best friend (S) and his friend (R) a few months ago. I got together with R that night, but didn't tell S as he was going through a bad patch and we didn't want to upset him.
We told S were were going on a date a few days later so he could get used to the idea.
Its been a while, and we aggreed that we would tell the truth. We thought it might be best coming from me as I have known him a lot longer.
My BF said that he valued me enough not to just blurt it out and potentially diturb a good friendship. I was really pleased he said that.
Anyway - you can guess where this is going. They are both away on a pre planned trip, and R texted me last night saying he had told him. My friend was ok about it, and said that S had asked the question directly.
But after what he said about valuing me, I am a bit annoyed. I haven't said anything as I don't want to ruin their trip. I know this isn't a big problem by the way, just thought I would ask. Any thoughts?
2006-09-21
22:25:05
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Steven L
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