My boyfriend can be very good (loving, attentive, gentle etc.) but also very bad (abusive, intimidating, blaming etc.) and I've stayed because I keep sight of the good and forgive the bad. However, I've caught him out with 4 big lies now. After the 3rd lie 2 months ago, I left, saying he had eroded my trust and ruined the relationship but he begged on his knees for another chance to show I can trust him. He's told 2 little and one massive lie since then. Whenever he's lied, he keeps up the elaborate stories until confronted with evidence. Since the breakup, I haven't shown the evidence so he has maintained the lies. Is it worth showing my hand anymore and confront him? I feel like he will always lie until confronted and it's hard to keep stumbling across facts that show up his lies. Why is it so hard for him to tell the truth, when I keep saying I won't judge him or get angry. Am I wrong to be so angry about this? I feel sad deciding to end this for good. Am I being hasty? Impulsive?
2006-09-18
17:20:33
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