I filed for divorce about a month ago. I had hoped it would nudge him into saving the marriage and I filed because I am drained and tired, and ready to really enjoy life. The thing is, we are still living in the same household. Which, at first I didn't mind so much, but I have recently told him if we are living as housemates then he needs to start doing his share of 50/50 for household stuff or give me the money. Also, I told him I am ready to get to the conclusion of our relationship. Since Itelling him about the divorce...he has more less been acting better but not enough for me to reconsider anything. So here's my questions:
1. What do you think is going on here?
2. Do you think I should show him the door? Or should I leave it alone until he gets served and see what he does then?
3. Am I sending mixed vibes?
4. I am not sure if he buying time, shocked, or simply unsure what to do?
Thanks,
K
2006-09-17
08:14:31
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