I have been carrying this flame for a girl, my first real girlfriend in high school for 20 years and recently found out she didn't really feel the same way about me as I did about her. I sought her out, tried many ways to find out how she was and what she was up to so to be able to say hello and that I still thought of her everyday. Sounds like an obession but she really changed my life. I was prepared for the fact that she had moved on, married,kids but wasn't ready to be told that I was not that important in her life. In life people leave their personal tattoos with you so that their passage in your life marks you. It is true some come and some go but there are those who always stay with you and this girl was one of a few that have marked my life.
2006-09-17 08:13:50 · 16 answers · asked by PetitChristian2112 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
after surgery
2006-09-17 08:36:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you love anyone you should expect heartache. It is the flip side of the joy that loving gives you. Even the happiest couple is nearly doomed to pain, one usually dies first and leaves the other alone. Try to see your heartache not as a burden or curse, but as one looks at scar tissue. It is usually bigger and stronger after the wound has mended. I think it was David Ben-Gurion, the first prime minister of Israel who said, "He who loves much will suffer much." Put this girl away in that secret place in your heart, treat the memory of her as your own private treasure and don't be afraid to smile inwardly because of it.
2006-09-17 08:24:09 · answer #2 · answered by whiterook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You, my friend, just might carry this flame for the rest of your life. I have one that I have carried forever. It's not a bad thing, but you will always wonder. Good Luck
2006-09-17 08:17:28 · answer #3 · answered by roskez13 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happend to me. A lot of it was all in your head. Want some good advice? Tell God that you need companionship, and ask for someone cute!
2006-09-17 08:17:24 · answer #4 · answered by josiedickelman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never replace the love you had for this girl......though you must accept people come and go (seems your already there)...move on......the break will always be there but you can shore it up by finding another to commit yourself to
2006-09-17 08:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by scotdic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a shame that she couldn't see how much she had influenced your life. Or it could be that she was just embarrassed to be told this...Take heart that time heals all wounds...
2006-09-17 08:18:56 · answer #6 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some hearts mend and some dont, its up to you to decide if you think someone else could make you feel just as happy...its a mental thing for some of us.
2006-09-17 08:16:46 · answer #7 · answered by slipknot72396 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sooner or later you'll find a girl you'll love & your broken heart will mend
2006-09-17 08:19:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds. Move on. You'll be O.K. It will be hard, but it's what needs to happen. Good luck bro.
2006-09-17 08:17:22 · answer #9 · answered by bigwilly1997 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will heal. its the people who has a impact in there life is the ones who make us who we are. good luck
2006-09-17 08:27:09 · answer #10 · answered by hotmaxus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take time, but your heart will mend.
Good luck.
2006-09-17 08:16:04 · answer #11 · answered by Kiki Joy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋