Why do people fall out of love?
I am talking about marriages without cheating or verbal/mental/physical abuse.
My aunt and uncle were married for 10 years, I always thought they were so happy. But then my aunt went to my uncle one day and said she wasn't in love anymore and wanted a divorce. He swears to this day he didn't see it coming.
How can you be so in love with someone for years, have children and then one day wake up and realize you are no longer in love.
My wife and I have been together for 5 years, the first year or two were very passionate, now its a more mature relationship. I don't feel like its "new" love, but I feel more respect for her and I feel that we are lovers (still) but also best friends. Its like our love shifted from passionate love to a different love.
Do you think people think mature love means you aren't in love anymore? Maybe a mature love is boring for some people?
What do you think?
2006-09-13
10:14:20
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HappyHippo
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Marriage & Divorce