My fiance picked his "best friend" to be his best man. Well, it had been 5 months since he'd heard from him. The friend ignored his calls, and my fiance got really upset and picked another best man - who has become his new best friend. He thought that since his friend's wife and I don't get along at all, that the friend was going to back out of the wedding.
Last night, my fiance finally heard from him and found out that he had been having a lot of marital problems and acted like nothing ever happened. My fiance feels weird about the situation, and didn't tell him that he picked another best man to replace him because he didn't want to hurt his feelings.
Now, my fiance has two best men. I have two matrons of honor.... should we still keep him in the wedding, even though he could do the same thing and not talk to us again for another 5 months......? Or somehow find the words to say that he's been replaced?
2006-08-17
02:57:15
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Rock Goddess
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