My wife and I have been together for 12 years and I have to admit I was very negligent in taking care of her needs for a few years. I was selfish and preoccupied with my own issues. She sought out someone else to take care of her sexual needs. I found out about it and initially got angry and she was remorseful but it spurned us on to counseling and I realized it did not need to destroy our relationship. In fact, with time, she told me more about what happened and her desires (that she could not communicate to me before due to my ignoring her)..and it adds to our sex life. We even use it to excite each other now and then. Weird? I don't think so. She needed a little more "aggresiveness" in the bedroom. A couple of long silk scarves, a bed with posts and some acting skills can do wonders!
2006-07-30
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