My husband and I have been married for 2 years, we have been together for 4 years. We have a 2 year old daughter and he is a wonderful father. My husband and I have not been intimate in over 2 years. He says it is because I gained so much weight (30lbs) during my pregnancy, I am 5ft 6in (I was135lbs before) and he isn't attracted to me anymore. Needless to say this has put a major strain on our relationship. We go through the usual fights and make-ups like any marriage but I recently found out that his father cheated on, and divorced his mother because she gained weight during her pregnancy with both my husband and his twin brother. I have asked him if he still loves me and he assures me that he does, he spends time with me and is always very sweet, the only thing that is missing is our intimate relationship. I have recently lost over 20lbs but still that is not enough. Should I shut my mouth and live in a sex-less marriage? Or, should I give him an ultimatum....Intimacy or get out?
2006-07-30
05:05:24
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lopezjri
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Marriage & Divorce