I met a guy online and we went out and had a great time together. He is not my ideal man but he will do as I know I can't have everything I want. We have spent many hours together and we seem to enjoy each others company. I have learned much about him and also about his ex and the divorce. It turns out he filed for divorce (this is a point off with me because I frown on people who break their marriage vowels and I was in a very bad marriage myself but didn't leave it, he left me.) He wife ran up big credit bills and he just could't handle her spending habits anymore and after over 20 years of marriage, got divorced. He got a bad deal in the divorce and lost everything and got all the debt. I myself have very high debt and I don't know how to break it off with him at this point because I know if he found out, if we got married and alll, that he would never marry me or he would leave me afterwards like he did his wife. There is no immediate way for me to get out of debt either
2006-07-22
04:57:58
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