My husband and I just celebrated our 1 year wedding anniversary 2 days ago. We live next door to his mother. everytime she has a problem of any kind she calls him to come help her & stays there for hours. She has it in his head that he is to be the father figure 2 his 2 younger brothers. She always asks to borrow money and he doesnt tell me till after he let her. He makes plans for us with her and her family without telling me. She even tried to take over in the planning of our wedding last year. He feels that he has to take care of her and his brothers. We dont have much money for us to live on in the first place. She invites herself almost every place we go together. And he is ok with it. We dont have much free time for just the 2 of us. They never ask me if its ok with me. His mom plays the drama card on him all the time and he falls for it. Everytime I say something he just gets mad and wont talk to me for days. I dont know how to get it through his head. What should I do?
2006-07-11
04:12:00
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