My fiance watches internet porn when i'm not around. We've had many talks about how much it hurts me & makes me upset for days, but he still does it sometimes anyway. He says that it's not that often, and that he usually only does it if he can't concentrate to study, or if he can't sleep, but the other day he just did it becuase he felt like it. he said,"if he wants to do it sometimes, damnit, he's going to". He seems bothered that I bring it up when it happens, and he seems bothered that it bothers me so much.
We've tried to come to compromise that he'd cut down on how often, but i'm still not feeling better. I'm sad for days after. I don't know how to talk to him about it anymore, because I get the feeling that it just makes us both upset and nothing changes anyway.
Not getting married isn't an option, I love him more than anything, and this is our only big issue, but i'm very hurt. any ideas on what I should do next?
2006-06-30
04:27:42
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