Let's say you are in love with a person who is as close as possible to your ideal in a partner, but they make you extremely nervous, they make it hard to breathe, they light the universe on fire basically when you are around them. But you are afraid that you would not be fully comfortable being yourself around them because you are so scared of losing them. Is it better to be with a person who makes you feel this wonderful, or to find someone you are comfortable with? Would it be better to be with someone you could totally be yourself around, disgusting etc, or someone who always made you want to be the best you can be because you want them always? I've dated people I could be around all the time, and I didn't care what I looked like, or what they thought of me, basically because I was very secure. But I didn't really care if they left me or not. Now I could date someone who is my one shining thing, but will I ever be able to relax and be myself? He makes it hard to breathe...
2006-06-30
04:21:38
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