this girl i love a lot....if you take the time to read some of my other questions, you'll see.......now she somehow got my sn....i'm a little afraid 2 talk 2 her, but also vey eager.....what should i talk about, and how do i start?..help with everything
2006-06-30 04:20:53 · 22 answers · asked by Pretty Boy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I'm a girl and I actually like to talk about myself and things I like.
But first off DON'T BE SHY and don't be afraid because that would ruin it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Please don't do the same mistake my Friend did.You should act cool and be very nice to her.Give her flowers and stuff tell her how beautiful she is.Ask her to go to the movies with you as a friend.Take your chance and ask her out.Hang out with her but don't try to control her because many girls hate that. Get to know her better because maybe you just lust her?The worst
thing that can happen she'll say "no".If she'll say "no" don't be sad or anything
think that that's her problem and move on and find somebody else better.
There are alot of cute girls out there who might like you.But don't move to fast that might freak her out.Try to flirt with her thou and see if she'll do the same thing. Tell her friends to ask her if she likes you.PLEASE TAKE YOUR CHANCE because you never know what's gonna happen.It's better then just sitting there and thinking "Well maybe she likes me?".It's better to know the truth.If she'll say no that's her problem and she's not for you.
Good luck and don't be be afraid 2 talk 2 her.Just be cool and nice.
:)
2006-06-30 04:42:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start by saying hi and ask how her day is going. Then let the conversation go, you should be able to pick up on things in the conversation to talk about. You'll be scared but don't be, its just a conversation not a marriage proposal. Take your time and remember to breath. You can always practice in the mirror or with a friend. Good luck
2006-06-30 11:23:28 · answer #2 · answered by sweetsugakb24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a minute there is a girl you love alot? but didnt have your screen name before? hmmm interesting. how do you love someone with out letting that person know all about you. Start with hello . How are you. then whatever comes natural. you might find that you really dont have that much in common and it was just infatuation. Wow i thought love was knowing a person. REALITY CHECK TIME.
2006-06-30 11:24:40 · answer #3 · answered by sweeetkisses2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not make it seem like work - talk to her like you are old friends - go to the movies - go to the lake or walk through the mall - take her to Sonic for burgers and a coke or something - just have fun and let her see what a great guy you are - if you really are!
2006-06-30 11:23:33 · answer #4 · answered by Bugs_Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just look at her. Then, look another way, and then, again. Ask her what she wants to talk about. Tell her you like her. Ask her if she wants you around. sk her if it's OK you wanna know a lot of things about her, get to know her well. Ask all you want to ask as long as it's OK with her. Interject "is it OK with you" most of the time.
2006-06-30 11:24:55 · answer #5 · answered by Josh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her how she is doing? if she just woke up like i did. ask how she slept. (how did u sleep?) not like on ur side or w/e like did she have bad dreams? did she wake up at 2am thinking about u? ask what she is doing today. and if she says nothing take a long shot and ask her if she wants to do something. anythin go swing at the park. go shopping. go to one of ur houses and watch a movie. anything
2006-06-30 11:26:03 · answer #6 · answered by Kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask questions to get the ball rolling. Something more sophisticated than "whadaya do?"
Try something interesting like, "If you HAD to do an extreme sport - which one would you do?"
And then let it run from there.
2006-06-30 11:23:21 · answer #7 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest letting her make the first move. Also let her carry on the conversation. That way you are under no pressure. Good luck.
2006-06-30 11:26:09 · answer #8 · answered by CenTexan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me help u dear child, lol the first thing you say iswhats up than ask her something about her self like music food places she been etc and there you go a conversation will begin
2006-06-30 11:25:13 · answer #9 · answered by yayo_upin_disbitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same probleme with the girl that i like!!!!!!! my advise be freinds with her first keep it slow!!! dont do it fast dont give her anything that will make it worse>>>> be friends first>>> cause theres this girl in school i gave her flowers and stuff>>>> she got mad sooo follow me and do my advise > talk with her dont tell her that you like her ... cause she wont talk to you.. she will be shy.. soo if you want her tto be your girl friend keep it slow. not fast just give her time you make time its your choice follow my advise
2006-06-30 11:31:15 · answer #10 · answered by mikee23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋