My first loved and I are bestfriends for 3 years. When we broke up i was really heartbroken and took a really long time to get over. I've been in a relationship with another guy for 2 years and i love him very much now my ex wants me back and my current boyfriend knows. Do you think I should go out with him tomorrow to see if im making the right decision or tell my boyfriend that me and him are going movies or dont go out with him at all.
2006-06-30 04:20:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
surely you don't have to ask this
2006-06-30 04:23:26 · answer #1 · answered by lovesyourdiamond 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go on a date w/ ex then your telling him you want him back. If you go on a date w/ex then your telling your current bf (without acctually telling him) that you still have feeling for your ex. and I'm doubting our relationship. So if things are going great with your current boyfriend, until ex came along, then tell your ex to find someone else, you don't love him anymore. I'm sure your emotional and your feelings are everywhere and you don't know what to do, after all he was your first love. Understand that first loves are the hardest to get over but, the best way is to not put yourself in situations where your alone w/him, because then you'll go backwards. Good luck
2006-06-30 04:29:47 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Advise = ) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you should go out with the old guy. It didn't work before so it may not work again, then you will have lost the new guy who has given you two years of his life. Imagine how the new guy feels knowing that you are considering meeting up with your old boyfriend, you would not like that to be done to you.
In the end its up to you and what your heart wants but be careful because there are other peoples feelings involved here. Good luck with your decision :)
2006-06-30 04:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U HSOULDN'T GO OUT WITH HIM AT ALL.IF YOUR EX WANTED U THAT BAD HE WOULD NOT HAVE BEEN A FOOL AND LET U GO.IN MY SHORT LIFETIME I'VE LEARED MUCH ABOUT MEN.BUT MOSTLY I'VE LERANED THAT THEY GET JEALOUSE WHENT HE SEE SOMONE WIT THEIR EX.THEY DON'T ADMITT IT BUT THEY DO.THEY TELL U THEY'VE CHANGED BUT U FIND YOURSELF HAVING THE SAME PROBLEMS.SO NO DONN'T GO OUW WITH HIM STCK TO YOUR CURRENT BOO.
2006-06-30 04:27:24 · answer #4 · answered by khandiqueen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself whom you really love. that will be your final decision & that's what you're going to tell them both
2006-06-30 04:27:57 · answer #5 · answered by circe8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of it this way. you wounld like it if you werer seeing a guy and he went out with his ex who was trying to hook back up with him.
2006-06-30 04:24:24 · answer #6 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋