Why is it that people only want you when you are not interested in them anymore or have someone already?

Answer 1

First, there is the wanting something that you can't have thing, but that is just part of it. When you are in another relationshiop, you are more relaxed, you don't try to impress and your not "always on" incase you run into that special person. You have a sense of confidence that is attractive. This is why you hear the advice all the time to stop looking and you will find someone. Humans have the ability to sense desperation and we stay away from it.
Plus, there is the "I want what I can have" or "I want what he/she has because they seem happy and I want to be happy too".
Don't stress about it, you can't do a thing to change this. Take it as a compliment that you are wanted and go about your day.

Answer 2

Because you don't appreciate what you have till you are near to losing that . When you know that you have smth you don't worry about it, and finally when you understand that you may lose it you became so keen on that.
I think because people don't like failings. And when you see that smth (in this case someone) that belonged to you is being taken away from you (is going away from you) you feel bad about it and want it back.

Answer 3

That's very true. When you are with someone they tend to take you for granted, but then when you move on and meet somebody else they want you back and feel like they blew it....which they probably did.

Answer 4

For some reason their are alot of people that want something that isn't available to them. Maybe its because they like wanting it and know they can't have it so they don't worry about it

Answer 5

Because it is human nature to want what you cant have.

Answer 6

human nature to want what is not obtainable...to reach for what's not there

Answer 7

thrill of the chase i guess or just realy jelios

Answer 8

thats just how the cookie crumbles


lol

Answer 9

cuz they want something they can't have, human nature