I know biblically that the only time you get a divorce is when there is abuse, or adultery. At this point there has never been any adultery, but my wife is about to get abused. I can't take her double-standard bull anymore. If I talk about buying something, she's nervous about our finances, but (I kid you not) the next day we could spend double the about of money I would've spent on something she wants.
I sincerely try to make her happy, and do romantic things, but if I mess up just once, it's all over. The yelling, and mean comments abound.
If I am generally a happy person, how long should I be with someone that is not happy with themseleves? We have no kids ( Thank God!). And I do love her, but I think I am beating my head on a rock with this. All answers very welcome.
2006-06-19
10:12:42
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bluejtrain
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