Came out ftm a week ago to my mom. I thought-- geeze, she's seen this coming, she asked me some time ago if I was trans and at that time I said no, b/c I wasn't ready to tell her. so I figure she's asking, so I'll tell her, so I tell her and she proceeds to call me names, tell me that I'm immoral, tells me that I am bad for my kid, and that if I did transition she'd love me, but not be able to have a relationship with me. She also stated that I have lied to her my whole life b/c she's just finding this out now. She also suggested that someone must have talked me into being trans. I felt like I was beat down by some biggot and was totally traumatized by this. I have since backed down and now feel that maybe I'm a nutjob and would be bad if I did anything so I decided, maybe I don't have to transition and could find some middle ground, but that's not good enough and now I'm REALLY stuck b/c my mom is back to her "normal" with me b/c she thinks I won't transition, but i think I NEED to.
2007-09-21
13:24:52
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Shmo Joe
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