What i really want out of a relationship is love...but my ex jus wanted sex...has sex become more important in a relationship than love?
2007-09-22 03:41:24 · 9 answers · asked by ~*jojo*~ 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I reply to you without judgment or advice - just sharing my own experience.
So often we jump into a Full Fledged Relationship because our first few sexual experiences were reeeeeally good. "Love" is an entirely different element. We can be 'in love' with the feelings we womp up when we're having sex with that person -
- but, do we really Love THEM ? - for exactly who they are, with all their quirks and flaws and personal attributes that turn us on ?
Maybe yooz guys are going after 2 different things. Might be a good idea to have a sincere, no-holds-barred talk about what you both ultimately want - what is most important to you both.
I've found a good way to do this is to make a nice pot of tea, and sit facing each other - holding hands. Holding hands keeps us talking with the "Us" constantly in mind. Good luck to you . *Bless* Sj
2007-09-22 03:53:53 · answer #1 · answered by The Church Lady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The Sad Thing To Say For Some People It Is Thats Sad To The Fullest. Love Should Be More Important But People Take It For Granted Which Is Not Cool At All.
2007-09-22 14:16:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have recently started my search for dating/love. I do love sexual encounters but I have found I need something more recently. Not sure why. So as of right now I would say love is more important. That is if things go well with this guy, if not then sex. I guess I'm not a big help. LOL
I wish you luck however.
2007-09-22 10:48:54 · answer #3 · answered by The Gay Argentian Seal 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh god
THIS RIGHT HERE IS Y FINDING LOVE IS SO DIFFICULT
everybody wants SEX
i broke up with plenty of guys on just the second date cuz all they wanted was sex and i found that so digusting and filthy
love is much more important
than from love goes to sex......and the sex will be beautiful once u find love
if u dont do it with someone u love and loves u back the sex will feel disgusting and dirty........
love always is important ....sex isnt...well unless its with your true love
2007-09-22 12:18:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're both necessary for a relationship, for me anyways. I can have sex without love, but it's not a relationship it's just sex.
2007-09-22 11:09:40 · answer #5 · answered by Jahn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hope not. Love is way more important then sex. I'm sure most men would disagree with me tho :-)
2007-09-22 10:48:48 · answer #6 · answered by Angelbunny17 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are both important to most people.
2007-09-26 08:13:58 · answer #7 · answered by ziggy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only to some people... easy solution... break up with those types of people and keep looking until you find the one who wants what you want... he's out there.. and he's wondering where YOU are...!!
2007-09-22 11:07:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i think it has
2007-09-22 15:12:02 · answer #9 · answered by ISIS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋