A gay guy getting married to a woman...
OR
A gay guy getting married to the person he considers to be the love of his life ( who is of the same gender )
2007-09-21 12:34:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I don't think either is morally wrong. A gay guy could get married for many reasons, which have no moral decisions involved.
2007-09-21 12:47:59 · answer #1 · answered by ☮ wickey wow wow ♀♀ 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Depends on whose morals you are following. I think that both can be equally moral, as long as both types of marriages are based on honesty and nobody is being victimized. Although most gay guy/straight woman marriages are hardly ever based on honesty, but since this is a hypothetical, let's just pretend that it could happen.
My own morality is based on the idea that all humans should have the right to exist in peace, happiness, and without persecution. Basically, to be reasonably safe from both physical and psychological harm. I don't subscribe to the easy morals for the critical thinking impaired, often found in religious texts.
2007-09-21 20:15:37 · answer #2 · answered by p c 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A. a gay guy getting married to a woman.
Because you can't actually found happiness by marry a person that you not in love with...And that just even make yourself falling into a difficulty life.
2007-09-21 20:55:43 · answer #3 · answered by Nam D. 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Obviously, choice #1.
A gay man marrying a woman he's not in love with or sexually attracted to, simply because he's been guilt-tripped into thinking he should by a lot of fundamentalist bible-thumping busybodies who have nothing better to do with their lives than tell other people how to live, is morally wrong. Even more so if the woman he marries doesn't know he's gay and is sincerely in love with him, because he's lying to her by pretending to love her and pretending to be something he's not. And even more so, if the gay man continues to have sex with men on the down-low; now not only is he lying to her about their relationship, he's cheating on her. Eventually, his secret *will* come out.....and when it does, she (and any children they might have together) will be hurt by his lies and adultery.
2007-09-21 19:49:25 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
A gay guy marrying a straight woman is morally wrong. Unless she knows and for some reason consents to it, he is almost undoubtedly lying to her.
But I like the point you made, and the way you made it.
2007-09-22 11:31:19 · answer #5 · answered by Clint 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes a gay guy can married a woman...I have seen this before.
2007-09-21 20:12:58 · answer #6 · answered by K_LOVE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gay guy getting married to someone he doesn't love. That's wrong. If he's in love with another man...that's who he should be marrying.
2007-09-21 19:46:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
i think the gay guy getting married to the women is wrong because that's not what he wants and who knows how long down the road he is going to break her heart to be with another man i don't think a gay guy getting married to a man is wrong that's what he like let him
2007-09-21 19:47:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Let's put it this way. I've been truly in love with my gay "boyfriend" for TEN YEARS now. And he loves ME, too! Perhaps not as I would like for him to, but he loves me, nonetheless. I think deep down, he KNOWS that there ain't no "boy" that'll EVER love him as I do!
I think it is MORALLY WRONG of him to reject marrying me and being with me, based solely on the fact that I don't have a penis! After all, "love knows no gender"......right?????!?
2007-09-22 02:34:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i have to say the gay guy getting married to the woman. even if it's just a "pretend marriage", it's still wrong.
2007-09-22 00:52:15 · answer #10 · answered by Gecko Missed all his friends 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋