Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - July 2007

This is sort of out of the blue but he's definitely made up his mind.

The thing is... he's mentioned seperating when he leaves because he thinks it would be too much of a strain on our relationship to be apart for so long.

We've been together for four years now and I'd like to think our relationship is a solid one, but apparantly he doesn't think as I do.

I'd just like to hear from anyone else that has loved ones in the military. Should we break it off or try to stay together? Also, would trying to stay in touch with me while hiding the fact that he's gay screw up his chances with the whole "don't ask, don't tell" BS?

Like I said, then is all kind of sudden and I'm still a bit dumbfounded by the whole thing.

2007-07-25 03:15:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-25 02:51:55 · 1 answers · asked by Kelly 3

if so, do they still burn crosses and visit the Jerry Springer show?

2007-07-25 02:08:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does anyone know where I can get accurate info online about FTM transgenders. I am in a relationship with FTM and want to learn all I can so I can be completely supportive.

2007-07-25 01:34:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just started watching Desperate Housewives, and I was wondering, is the character Andrew Van De Kamp gay?

I know it's not like a big deal or anything, but I've been watching the show like "Oh he definitley is. No wait... I guess he's not. No wait he has to be. Oh, I guess not" Anyone know?

Oh! While I have you Desperate Housewife fans here, I gotta ask, who is Mary Alice? Like, I know she's the narrator of the show, but is she an actual character to? Or just a disembodied voice.

2007-07-24 23:13:51 · 7 answers · asked by StarGirl 2

i live in crocker missouri about 15miles form the fort and it is hared to fined someone so please help me out

2007-07-24 22:12:05 · 1 answers · asked by mid_mo_guy_20 1

this one's easy for me

Brokeback mountain

it was great

2007-07-24 22:07:01 · 15 answers · asked by vikingmuffin 3

Seems like I always start off good friends with some guys we hang out we talk everything is good bt then I am str8 out about by sexuality so there is no expectations..at first it seems all good..then after a time he begins to talk about how long his tounge is..how good a lover he is..or how he and his g/f want to do a threesome..i mean from a decent man to a pervert is what I have encountered and it is very disappointing..because even when I say I am a Lez why does it suddenly become an obssesion to convert me? or maybe its just my encounter with men?

2007-07-24 20:18:57 · 14 answers · asked by Charmer 4

2007-07-24 19:38:54 · 9 answers · asked by lilmama 1

idk if i should tell my friend that im gay or not. i mean i trust her in not saying anything (im a closet case), but i dont no how she'll treat me. cuz she's Jehovah's witness and they believe that homosexuality is crude, vain, and disgusting (like christians......go figure). ive been friends with this girl since kindergarten and i would b mortified if our friendship ended because of the gender i love, but i also dont want to keep lying to her about it anymore. plz help!!

2007-07-24 19:38:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Specifically racist against Blacks, why waste your energy on hating when you can be learning about more important things in your life.

2007-07-24 18:53:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

And can you also list why...

2007-07-24 18:28:17 · 17 answers · asked by <<twix>> 2

Why or Why not?

2007-07-24 17:52:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well the truth is i am gay-curious right now. I really like my friend. We are both male. He is gonna be coming to my house for a couple days soon and i was wonderin about makin a move then. I just am nervous and think he wil not take it well or will not want to be friends anymore.

Then at times there is when he will actually make gay reactions and act like a gay person sometimes and i dont think he realizes it unless i bring it up. We have been on the computer before and have looked at porn.

So any help?

2007-07-24 17:48:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have heard about people choosing to be gay/lesbian from some people. I think some may be out there but I personally am gay and if I had a choice, I would be straight.

2007-07-24 17:47:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to why everybody says it's better then just 2 people sex. does it feel better? or what.

2007-07-24 17:41:02 · 27 answers · asked by melllesbell 1

i get attacked by black ppl and called racist...im not being racist at all im just making a true point.

2007-07-24 17:23:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I went through "puberty," or whatever you want to call it several years ago, I had typical sexual attractions to the opposite sex. But within the past few years, I completely lost my interest in the opposte sex (or the same), and now I can't even have a boyfriend, because I don't want to make out or anything. I now think sexual activity is digusting and don't want any part of it. It kind of embarassing talking to my friends about it, b/c they just think I need to take a Viagra, or something, but I really wonder is I could be asexual.

Do any of you know much about asexuality, and do you think it's a legitimate sexual orientaion?

2007-07-24 16:20:51 · 8 answers · asked by nerdandproudofit 3

They were extremely religious and would probably shun themselves from you and you from the entire family....and plenty of other things....

2007-07-24 15:57:23 · 18 answers · asked by Sheltered.By.Shadows. 3

If have one night stand with man or woman, you very satisfied that one time. But next time you that person, you feeling very odd. Also if that person you see privately - you want to sex more and more times with that person.

This happen to everyone, right?

2007-07-24 15:52:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have John Travolta, Tom Cruise, Clay Aiken, Justin Timberlake, and Leonardo DiCaprio who should be the last one?

2007-07-24 15:09:15 · 13 answers · asked by TRACER ™ 6

He acts really fruity

2007-07-24 14:21:15 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was talking to my friend today and he commented how much he hates it when straight people tag along to gay clubs as 'they ruin the atomsphere'.

I was just wondering if alot of people feel the same as my friend?????

2007-07-24 12:11:52 · 24 answers · asked by Blackout 2

I'm a monogamous, honest bisexual man and I'm getting to the point where I almost have to carry around a premade speech for when someone inquires about my love life. This includes men I date who are turned off by the fact I've dated women in the past.

2007-07-24 10:45:40 · 8 answers · asked by collegedebt 3

why is it that some straight guys will act gay around another guy even thou their not gay themselfs. is it becuase their just jokeing? i want to know why some guys do this.

2007-07-24 09:45:39 · 13 answers · asked by culexlegion 1

questioning their sexuality?

Personally, I do. There wasn't anyone that I could have turned to when I was young. I only got into a support group AFTER I had accepted that I was gay. I want to answer a lot of the questions that I see here, but I don't feel that I'm qualified to do so. I don't think the way I had to deal with things was the easiest, but I don't know any other way to tell anyone. SO...I usually don't touch these....unless I feel that that person is a danger to themselves or others.....


Please give me your thoughts..... AND this is a SERIOUS question....I have no time for the BS from people that have no intention of answering this honestly....got it?!?

2007-07-24 09:37:40 · 26 answers · asked by Oberon 6

What is the opposite of conservative?

2007-07-24 09:34:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i've dealt with the fact that i'm not getting any chest anytime soon and i'm fine with my A cup, but it seems some people like to point it out and be funny about it as if i should feel bad, when i'm really happy with myself. what should i say back to them to let them know what they just said was stupid. and how can i make them feel dumb about what they just said in a repectful way when people go "you dont have any breasts, or youre flat

2007-07-24 09:19:35 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok me and my friend want to know what it feels like, we are young, but we pretend to have sex sumtimes, but it just doesn't feel good! what are some good moves for us to use to make it feel good?! p.s. we arn't lesbians we have clothes on too, we just want to know what it feels like.

2007-07-24 08:52:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I define myself as a 'gay' man because I have found fufilment and intimacy in my relationships with men that I haven't with women. However but by defining myself as gay people make assumptions about me. Is that fair? on me? or even those around me?

2007-07-24 08:41:52 · 20 answers · asked by waggy 6