Well the truth is i am gay-curious right now. I really like my friend. We are both male. He is gonna be coming to my house for a couple days soon and i was wonderin about makin a move then. I just am nervous and think he wil not take it well or will not want to be friends anymore.
Then at times there is when he will actually make gay reactions and act like a gay person sometimes and i dont think he realizes it unless i bring it up. We have been on the computer before and have looked at porn.
So any help?
2007-07-24 17:48:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Ask him. You can't force someone to admit he is gay but if he is and you ask nicely he will probably tell you. Mind you, even if he is gay, you might not be his type so if he refuses your advances, don't press it.
2007-07-24 17:55:01 · answer #1 · answered by tentofield 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there before...! You either think he's gay or you might be wishing he's gay..? Let him know your thought's and try intimacy after that. I've had a few gay friends like that & there is a lot you can do to help them come out, but you have to be gentle about it.
Email me if you want to chat about it some more..!
2007-07-25 01:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by Bling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want him then you have to come out to him and tell him.
you are a coward just trying to "out" him for your own lusty purposes and he probably sees right through you.
personality quirks are not signs of homosexuality.
with guys touch is often the best opening line.
try to get him into a squeezeplay situation where you are in a tight spot together. two of you passing in a doorway crotch to crotch.
my favorite was my freind sitting beside me on the floor at another friends house. he put his hand on my D!CK and used it to balance as he stood up. very direct but could be written of as losing balance if it is taken badly
2007-07-28 21:02:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) There IS such thing as acting gay.
2) I would subtly test him. Insert some gay references into your conversation, but nothing that would make him become defensive in any way.
2007-07-25 01:26:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the two of you have a really good relationship. So, go for it! Ask him if he's gay, and tell him how you feel about him.
2007-07-25 01:12:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have too agree i think you guys have a strong relation ship. Go on and try it. just tell him your true feelings and who knows he might feel the same way towards you just really really shy.
Good Luck!
2007-07-25 01:27:13 · answer #6 · answered by tyler d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he going to sleep in your house too? If so you can make a move on him at night when no one is around.
2007-07-25 01:10:25 · answer #7 · answered by me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) There is no such thing as "acting gay"
2) Gay, Straight or Lesbian porn?
2007-07-25 00:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by N♂t - ♂ut - Yet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to "make" your friend do anything? Enjoy the friendship and stop thinking with your crotch.
2007-07-25 01:26:50 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's going to have to be gay in order to admit it...
2007-07-25 01:01:29 · answer #10 · answered by Zaggy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋