I'm a monogamous, honest bisexual man and I'm getting to the point where I almost have to carry around a premade speech for when someone inquires about my love life. This includes men I date who are turned off by the fact I've dated women in the past.
2007-07-24 10:45:40 · 8 answers · asked by collegedebt 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I hold no animosity towards them. If i was attracted to women, i sure in heck would go that way, unfortunately thats not a choice that i have, so a part of me doesnt understand why you would want to make your life harder. Also...ew gross...you sleep with women.
2007-07-24 10:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly dont know, but i am bisexual, but 15 and havent 'come out' yet so i havent dated too much, so i hope that it isnt a turn off. I think that if you love someone, it really shouldn't matter who they've dated in the past . The fact that you like men and women doesnt chage who you are as a person, and everyone else should be able to see that. If you like someone, then you like them, you shouldnt base who you fall for on who you've been with in the past.
2007-07-24 17:53:48 · answer #2 · answered by mack7465 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a gay man who has been out for over 30 years. I can't say I've ever noticed any animosity. In fact, I've had some very good friends who were bisexual. There is, I think, often a thought of doubt when one describes himself/herself as bisexual. There is sometimes a feeling that the person may, in fact, be in a transitional stage where they actually prefer same-sex but aren't willing, or able, to declare their homosexuality. I think a lot of us have seen that proved out so many times. I've certainly seen many men go from bi to gay but can't think of anyone who evolved from bi to straight. The important thing is to be honest with yourself. As long as you do that, you owe no further explanation to anyone.
2007-07-24 18:02:14 · answer #3 · answered by Tom K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not from me...I have dated/had sex with one hell of a lot of married men..they want what they cannot get at home, and I give it to them.. They leave the house, the door is closed, and that is that...no kissing and telling, etc. I really don't care what someone considers themselve to be, that is their business, not mine. I am in it for the fun of the moment, not a marriage. I ask for no explanations, I don't ask if they are gay or bi, I figured out a long time ago if they were knocking at my door, it was for one thing only...that is as far as I want to take it. And someone being Bi is neither a turn on or a turn off to me...when they are with me, they are gay....period. They can be bi withwhom ever they want, but as long as I get no attitude from them, everything is fine. The problems with me come when I detect a Superiority complex coming from them....I gently remind them that they are on bottom, they have their mouths full, so I do not want to hear about who they go out with or what they do when they are with someone else...it really is none of my business.
2007-07-24 17:56:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I have any animosity... but there I have doubts about dating bi-sexual people.... There is always a fear that he/she will not be able to control his/her desires for the other sex, and as a result end up straying...
Also for many gays, bisexuals seem like they are going back and forth... (as if though they are gay one day and straight the next)...
2007-07-24 17:58:03 · answer #5 · answered by Julian X 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They've probably been hurt by a bisexual that couldn't make up his/her mind about what he/she wanted.
2007-07-24 18:16:54 · answer #6 · answered by Xena_fire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not for me, your life is your business
2007-07-24 17:51:49 · answer #7 · answered by startrektosnewenterpriselovethem 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coward
2007-07-24 17:53:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋