i want to why everybody says it's better then just 2 people sex. does it feel better? or what.
2007-07-24 17:41:02 · 27 answers · asked by melllesbell 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
my girlfriend has 2 personalities, it's kinda like a threesome.
2007-07-24 17:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 3⤋
I believe that a threesome is particularly good for women. Women generally last longer and need and can take more stimulation. The extra person provides that. Especially with two men and a woman - both concentrating on her. The guys are also visual and like to watch the woman interacting with the other.
Two women and a man - the man expires more quickly - it can devolve into an FF twosome - and a spent guy. The man has to expect and tolerate not being the center of attention the whole time.
If a guy and girl in the threesome - either kind of threesome - are part of a couple - the third has to realize that they are secondary to the whole affair. If they are there for fun - fine - but they have to realize that the other two will be sharing an intimate moment that they are not part of.
Does it feel better? - physically yes - more stimulation, sensory overload. - emotionally? - yes, it can be a very intense, intimate and emotional bonding experience for non-jealous, caring couple.
If the partners are there for each other, concentrating on each other primarily, and if the third is respectful, keeps their place and has fun without being intrusive - the whole thing can work out well for everyone.
2007-07-26 15:12:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I "sort of" had a threesome - and have been involved in some group "activities"...
If done right - it can PHYSICALLY feel better. Just imagine TWO (or more) people giving you pleasure at the same time ;););)
But many people feel that having only one partner is best - after all, you CANNOT "Make Love" to TWO people. The addition of LOVE into the equation takes sex to a MUCH higher level :):)
2007-07-25 00:46:44 · answer #3 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I have had a couple of threesomes, and I didn't like them at all. To much going on, and I am way into intimacy, and I couldn't get the intimacy that i wanted. (I had two because the first one was so bad for me i thought that I didn't do it right, the second time I realized what I was missing.)
2007-07-25 00:45:03 · answer #4 · answered by Paddington Bear 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I never have, and I don't think I ever will. I can't say I haven't thought about it... but for me, sex is about the intimacy. I like feeling close to my partner, and I don't think I could do that in a three-way...
Eh, maybe I'm just being prude-ish. But I don't think a three-way is for me. But if that's what you're into, go for it! ^_^ Just make sure you're safe about it. It would definitely increase your risk of contracting an STD (if you're not safe).
2007-07-25 00:55:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to them. a threesome is only good if your not in a relationship with either person because of being jealous. just think of your partner going down on someone else. its not for me
2007-07-25 09:48:24 · answer #6 · answered by star lights 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't, I could imagine it would be more pleasurable because there are more people there who could give you pleasure.
I don't think I would personally ever have a threesome, i'm an incredibly jelous person sometimes and I think one person in bed is just enough for me.
2007-07-25 00:46:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well Yes there are some things that feel better and are awesome. It all depends on the situation. If you like attention everywhere then it will feel better getting that attention on both ends.
2007-07-27 04:25:27 · answer #8 · answered by curious6710 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
2 is a couple but 3 is a party
2007-07-25 00:45:28 · answer #9 · answered by answerer 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes and a foursome and group. It is just that it can be more fun as you get into new positions and all the hands touching and fondling and playing and more than one person to kiss and such. I have been with both girls and guys and both. Its lots of fun!!! Don't know that you could always consider it to be better though.
2007-07-25 00:44:39 · answer #10 · answered by smile_girl 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
It can be a great experience, just make sure you trust who you are getting involved with. It also depends on what you want done. 2-1 Guys or Girls?
2007-07-25 11:45:16 · answer #11 · answered by sweetpea 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋