Seems like I always start off good friends with some guys we hang out we talk everything is good bt then I am str8 out about by sexuality so there is no expectations..at first it seems all good..then after a time he begins to talk about how long his tounge is..how good a lover he is..or how he and his g/f want to do a threesome..i mean from a decent man to a pervert is what I have encountered and it is very disappointing..because even when I say I am a Lez why does it suddenly become an obssesion to convert me? or maybe its just my encounter with men?
2007-07-24 20:18:57 · 14 answers · asked by Charmer 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Ahhh... more proof that guys have sex-centric minds. lol
I think it has more to do with the guys you're friends with because I know lots of guys who aren't as conversion-happy as your guys... believe it or not, there ARE men out there who are understanding and really respectful of others' sexual orientations.
2007-07-24 20:26:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not just you. Str8 men for some reason thin kthey can convert a lesbian, and if they cant they try lure us into a threesome.. as if that would work! It's part of their nature. There must be 1 of two reasons why they do this, 1. because it would boost their ego to tell their friends that they "coonverted" a lesbian 2. they are just plain stupid.
2007-07-25 03:24:25 · answer #2 · answered by lseetz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be just your encounter with men. However, as you know, a lot of guys are turned on by girl on girl action. I also think it may be an ego thing. After all, if he can convert you from a lesbian to a heterosexual based on his sexual skills, then he would really be considered quite "the man", wouldn't he.
2007-07-25 03:24:25 · answer #3 · answered by Persephone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The simple answer is they find you attractive. If you are serious about being a lesbian, and not a bisexual, why not keep your distance from men, not be alone with them to where they will have the opportunity to make passes, things like that. If you need men for friends, make friends with gay men.
Remember that it would be a big ego-trip for a man if he could convert you to bisexuality.
2007-07-25 03:24:12 · answer #4 · answered by auntb93 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We're hard wired to believe that we are God's gift to women and that it's only a matter of time before they are irresistibly drawn to us. By the time we learn better, we're old and grey.
The sexiest dance I ever had was with a lesbian friend of my wife's; she was being pursued by just such a man and the only way she could think of to get rid of him was to make him think she was with another man. It worked, I guess, but by the time we got off of the dance floor, my brain was fried. Wow!
2007-07-25 03:25:57 · answer #5 · answered by nightserf 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because the guys you are hanging out with are @$$ Holes. They are getting off on the though that you are a lesbian. Just dump them and keep trying to find new friends.
2007-07-25 03:23:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
most men have the misconception that your a lesbian only because a "Man" hasnt come along and f**ked you properly...and he's just the man for the job.
what I would do(lol) is take him up on his threesome offer and then spend the night teaching his girlfriend what he probably hasnt been able too.....lol...try and change her mind...right under his nose(so to speak) lol
2007-07-25 03:31:32 · answer #7 · answered by coolred38 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just another Taboo in these guys minds. Something that they can't have, so now they are obsessed.
And no, it isn't all men. But I would say that more than half would think about it, less would try to act on it.
2007-07-25 03:22:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many guys are assholes like that. There are a few gems out there that won't try that crap. Good luck finding them though...
2007-07-25 17:43:30 · answer #9 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men are weird, it's natural to want what you don't have. they know they can't have you and that's part of the fun. men are always attracted to lesbians. weirdos.
2007-07-25 03:22:17 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋