Why do lesbians in particular insist that women who are bisexual identify as lesbian? I would think if you've been oppressed and discriminated against you would be mindful of doing this to others. Is this to make them feel "more comfortable." I had a lesbian friend say to me recently, "You're in that gray zone." Gray zone? Being bi-sexual means just that. There's no confusion on my part. I was married to a man once, brief , big mistake, but I realized that I'm not the "marrying type." I've also lived with two women.
I am attracted to women and men. I prefer the sisterhood, commonality, spirituality, and social structure of women, irregardless of whom they choose to have sex, partner, live with or love because of my matriarchal upbringing. Men, after a short time, bore me because of their tendency to be one diminisonal and lack of emotional depth. (Generalization? Sorry my experiences)
I always say, "I'm not lesbian, but I'm not exactly straight either."
2007-06-09
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Ebony Goddess
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