i am a black female and i have been bi-curious since the tender age of 16. i am now 24 and i am about to marry a man in a few weeks or so. before, i marry him, i want to see if i am truly meant to be with a woman for the rest of my life. i am not sexually attracted to men even though i love this man but i can't see myself hurting him enough to marry him and then divorce him because i really want to wake up to pu$$y every morning. if i fulful my fantasy and like it enough to leave him than i will not marry him. if its not worth it to leave the man i love than we will still get married and i will try to love his "complete package"
2007-06-09 10:09:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I don't have the time to go to clubs and bars because I am a mom and can't just leave my son with anyone.
2007-06-09 10:19:21 · update #1
Pardon me whilst I get out the blender and make myself a stiff drink(its been a looooooong day so far) first. Okay then, let me tell you this much first off. YOU, yes you reading this, need to talk to the man of your dreams about the woman of your dreams. Why? Because if you don't, no matter what else you do in life you'll drag that big moment of regret with you to your grave. Why? Because YOU owe him that honesty. Now as for finding a "sane" woman in New York to have an intimate night with, well I can't help you there. I'm severely lacking in my knowledge of the safer and much more respectable places to go to locate a date for the night since I last went back east five years ago. BUT!!!!!! Before you do anything else, you really should talk to a very trusting friend or even better, a counselor at the local LGBT center in town. Believe me, you won't regret it!
2007-06-09 10:22:03 · answer #1 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in any bar, darling...or maybe standing at a roadside pavement waiting one to be hooked by them.....remember julia roberts in "pretty women"
2007-06-09 17:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and meet people in bars and stuff like go to gay bars or something. x
2007-06-09 17:13:20 · answer #3 · answered by immiemiami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i CAN'T HELP YOU ON THAT ONE BUT i HAVE A FRIEND
IN NEW YORK I'LL ASK THEM AND E-MAIL IT BACK TO YOU
2007-06-09 22:12:12 · answer #4 · answered by kay b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋